August 11, 2007

Sand and Stone

Two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey, they had an argument; and one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: Today my best friend slapped me in the face.
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They kept on walking, until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him.

After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: Today my best friend saved my life.
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The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, “After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?”

The friend replied, “When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand, where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”

Learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your benefits in stone.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
An hour to appreciate them,
A day to love them
But then an entire life to forget them.

Do not value the things you have in your life, but value who you have in your life.


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21 comments:

Mary@notbefore7 said...

You find such beautiful things to share with us. This is so true. Sometimes forgiveness is hard. There are times it takes awhile, and much prayer, but it should always be the goal, for it is in forgiveness that God's blessings abound!

weavermom said...

Great illustration!

Pen of Jen said...

Amen! What a great post Leigh Ann. This really is so true. I know that it isn't always the easiest, but thanks for the wise reminder!!
Jennifer

MorningSong said...

Beautiful and great to remember!

onemotherslove said...

That is such a good story. Thanks for sharing.

Tracy said...

I've heard this before, but it always serves as a good reminder.

Ruth said...

I love that story!! Great post. Sometimes forgiveness can be hard to do, but we are the ones who suffer if we don't!!

... said...

great visual. it amazes me how i can remember certain concepts because of little stories i hear. this one is so simple and yet, so powerful.

thanks for sharing. hope you have a great weekend.

Just Mom said...

Another absolutely beautiful post by a beautiful person.

Thanks, Leigh Ann.

Susan said...

So perfect!!!
Susan

Just Mom said...

Came back to let you know my random photo post today was inspired by this post. :-D

Anonymous said...

I had heard that before, and it always touches my heart.

Anonymous said...

Awesome post, Leigh Ann!

Annie said...

Great story Leigh Ann, there's a lot of wisdom there!

Julieann said...

LieghAnn--I just loved this post!!!!

Julieann

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful post, Leigh Ann. Spoke right to me tonight! :o)

Susan said...

Beautiful reminder, Leigh Ann! I've heard this story before, but had tucked it away and forgotten it. I'm so glad it's "up front" for me today. The thing I'm trying to remember is when someone gives you something that is worthy of carving in stone...that we need to acknowledge it to the person rather than take it for granted.

Hugs to you,

:-) Susan

Amber said...

I love this Leigh Ann! LOVE IT!!

Thanks for sharing:)

God Bless,
Amber

Lori said...

What a wonderful post. Thanksfor sharing with us.

MightyMom said...

Hello, thank you for stopping by my place and leaving me a comment. I have read this a time or two before and it is always a good reminder to keep priorities straight! I enjoyed the pictures of your kids too!!

kddub said...

found you through just moms blog.

this post was perfect for me to read today, after dealing with some arguments. Thank you, it is very inspiring.